I first met Jolanne in 1986 after moving to Sacramento when I was 20, following a breakup with my first girlfriend. I didn’t know anyone, so I started going to bars and singing karaoke—that’s where I met Jolanne. Since then, she has been an incredible friend who has helped me in countless ways. Most importantly, she has always been there to listen. Without judgment and with compassion, she has consistently provided a safe space for me to share my struggles, whether it’s about my relationships with partners or my children, and she has always offered words of encouragement.
Now, after 38 years of friendship, 4 failed relationships, the loss of a spouse to drugs and alcohol, raising 6 kids (several of whom suffer from mental illness), and my own health challenges, Jolanne continues to make herself available to listen. Her support has had an immeasurable positive impact on my life, and I highly recommend her.